Purple Haired Beauty

Hi! My name is J and I have vaginismus! The technical definition for the term is vaginal tightness causing discomfort, burning, pain, penetration problems, or complete inability to have intercourse. I got married at 21 years old. I was so in love and ready to experience every aspect of marriage with my husband.  On our wedding night, losing my virginity was way more painful than … Continue reading Purple Haired Beauty

Big Eyed Beauty

At first, I thought I was normal. Sure, I had the telltale early primary symptom of vaginismus- an inability at a young age to insert a tampon. I assumed everyone shared my struggle. Surely all girls felt my pain, and felt like the tampon was hitting a wall. I presumed they just powered through the pain; a task too monstrous for me to ever consider. I only learnt that … Continue reading Big Eyed Beauty